This is usually a signal for the wedding processional to begin. She is escorted by the Head Usher to the first pew on the left side. Ushering the Mother of the Bride: The Mother of the Bride is the last person to enter the sanctuary before the wedding party.Ushering the Mother of the Groom: The Head Usher escorts the Mother of the Groom to the first row on row right, as her husband follows.To Usher Men: The Usher does not extend his arm, instead he walks beside them to their designated seat.To Usher a group of women: Escort the older woman and the younger women will follow behind the Usher.Her husband will either follow or the Usher can choose to say, 'Please follow me,' and the husband will follow behind the Usher. To Usher a couple: The Usher extends his right arm to escort the woman down the aisle.The Usher greets people with a pleasant 'Good Afternoon' or 'Good Evening,' whichever the case may be.The Usher sees to it that bridesmaids are not left unattended.The Usher does not stand in the receiving line but mingles with the guests at the reception.The Usher is available for wedding photographs.Selected Ushers may be asked to take care of pew ribbons and carpet and to stand at pews to indicate the order of departure. The Usher is usually aware of the names of relatives and special friends whom the bride and groom have reserved space for close to the altar where parents will be seated.It is recommended to politely ask a guest if they are friends of the bride or groom, if the Usher is unaware of their association. However, this custom is not followed as strictly as it once was. It has been the custom in the past to seat friends of the bride on your left behind the bride's parents, and the bridegroom's friends on the right side. Seating arrangements should be discussed prior to the wedding to decide how the Usher should seat guests. The Usher is required to carry out all the instructions that were previously appointed to him at the rehearsal.

(Note: This does not include wearing them for the reception.) If gloves are part of the attire, they must be worn at all times especially for the photographs. He must be properly dressed with his boutonniere on his left lapel.

The Usher is required to arrive one hour in advance unless previously notified.

The Usher attends the rehearsal dinner and is sometimes asked to give a toast in honor of the bride and bridegroom.

An Usher is required to attend the rehearsal for instructions and exercise of the processional, ceremony and recessional.

An Usher helps the best man especially during the week of the wedding when he has so much responsibility, and the bridegroom who may need his services.

Attire must be fitted properly, picked up and paid for then finally returned when necessary.

Each Usher has the responsibility to dress according to attire and instruction of the bride and bridegroom.

This gift is separate from the individual wedding present given to the couple by each Usher and Best Man.

An Usher attends the bachelor party and contributes to a joint gift which is presented to the bridegroom at the party.

In many cases, Ushers set the mood with their efficient ability and exemplary dispositions. It goes without saying that you must be well-groomed, on time, and well acquainted with the responsibilities you have for this important occasion. One of the most important things to remember is that your manner which should be friendly, polite and cheerful, will have a contagious effect on the entire atmosphere of the wedding. The information provided is to guide you concerning accepted Usher procedures, and in no way should interfere with the wedding plans which have been described by the bride or wedding consultant. Here are a few guidelines to follow and some traditional instructions which may be helpful to you in fulfilling your new role.

Congratulations, you have been selected to represent the bridegroom and bride as an Usher, an invaluable attendant which should be considered an honor.

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